Gila Pfeffer is an author, humorist and breast cancer prevention advocate who wrote a TRULY STUNNING memoir called Nearly Departed: Adventures in Loss, Cancer and Other Inconveniences which detailed her––and her family’s––experience with cancer.
In our half-hour chat, we discussed Gila's book, the challenges of writing about personal experiences, the impact of generational trauma, and the significance of breast health awareness. We also laughed a lot!
In the first part of our chat, Gila explained how she took proactive measures against breast cancer due to her family history and genetic predisposition, including genetic testing, preventative double mastectomy, and ovary removal. Despite these efforts, she was diagnosed with early but aggressive breast cancer at age 34.
Check out the clip below, where she talks about taking control of her health:
Next, Gila discussed her journey of writing a book, starting with a seed planted during a significant moment in her life. She shared her experiences of working in fashion marketing, focusing on her family, and eventually pursuing her passion for writing.
She also talked about the feedback she received from the breast cancer and religious communities, and how the book's focus on friendship resonated with readers.
Then, Gila shared her meticulous writing process, which involved interviewing family members and friends to ensure the accuracy of the details in her memoir. Here’s a clip:
Next, Gila discussed the challenges of writing about her parents, particularly in portraying herself in an unflattering light. She emphasized the importance of honoring her parents' memories and respecting her siblings and the next generation.
Gila also shared her experiences with loss and how it has impacted her life and her advocacy for breast cancer prevention. She shared her family's Holocaust experiences and how the generational trauma has affected her.
Then, we talked about how her community, particularly friends, supported her during her cancer treatment. Here’s a clip:
Next, we discussed the importance of understanding what a person going through a difficult time needs, rather than assuming what they want, and the need for self-preservation during difficult times and the importance of having the right people around to provide support.
Here’s her explaining how to support friends in crisis the right way:
Finally, we touched on the significance of breast health awareness and encouraged readers to spread the word. Head to her website for more breast cancer awareness resources.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, Gila!
Buy her book Nearly Departed anywhere books are sold.
