4 Ways to Upgrade the "Thinking of You" Text

Low-effort texts go nowhere. Send these instead.

Jul 14 • Anna Goldfarb

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June 2026

Rotten Devotion: The Friendship Dynamic Nobody Has Named

Offering genuine care while unconsciously requiring you to remain in a lower-status position. Here's how to recognize it — and heal from it.

Jun 24 • Anna Goldfarb

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Dog Friends, Cat Friends, and the Rare Breed Who Are Both

Or, Why Your Fun Friend Couldn't Hold You Through the Hard Stuff

Jun 19 • Anna Goldfarb

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Repost: How to Not Know with Author Simone Stolzoff

Decision coach Nell Wulfhart interviews author Simone Stolzoff about how to operate when the world is one big question mark

Jun 18 • Anna Goldfarb

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Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell McShane Wulfhart

A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video

Jun 12 • Anna Goldfarb and Nell McShane Wulfhart

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May 2026

Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell McShane Wulfhart

A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video

May 29 • Anna Goldfarb and Nell McShane Wulfhart

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The Five Kinds of Friends You Need

Robin Dunbar, the evolutionary psychologist behind the famous "Dunbar's number," spent decades proving that human beings can only maintain about 150…

May 18 • Anna Goldfarb

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Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell Wulfhart

A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video

May 15 • Anna Goldfarb and Nell McShane Wulfhart

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March 2026

Why no one knows how to end a friendship the right way

There are scripts for romantic breakups, for quitting jobs, for canceling gym subscriptions. Somehow this one got left out.

Mar 14 • Anna Goldfarb

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What Kind of Friend Are You, Actually?

a quiz

Mar 11 • Anna Goldfarb

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February 2026

50 Rules of Modern Friendship Etiquette

On how to show up, communicate, make time, be curious, navigate difficult conversations, and be an all-around wonderful friend

Feb 26 • Anna Goldfarb

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January 2026

The top 5 reasons why modern friendships suck

#4 Churn is high. Also: four things I love and two things I hate AND a new way for you to get help with your friendships (hint: It's a helpline run by…

Jan 15 • Anna Goldfarb

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