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Rotten Devotion: The Friendship Dynamic Nobody Has Named
Offering genuine care while unconsciously requiring you to remain in a lower-status position. Here's how to recognize it — and heal from it.
Jun 24
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4 Ways to Upgrade the "Thinking of You" Text
Low-effort texts go nowhere. Send these instead.
Jul 14
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Anna Goldfarb
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Dog Friends, Cat Friends, and the Rare Breed Who Are Both
Or, Why Your Fun Friend Couldn't Hold You Through the Hard Stuff
Jun 19
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Anna Goldfarb
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Repost: How to Not Know with Author Simone Stolzoff
Decision coach Nell Wulfhart interviews author Simone Stolzoff about how to operate when the world is one big question mark
Jun 18
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Anna Goldfarb
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Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell McShane Wulfhart
A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video
Jun 12
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Anna Goldfarb
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Nell McShane Wulfhart
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Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell McShane Wulfhart
A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video
May 29
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Anna Goldfarb
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Nell McShane Wulfhart
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The Five Kinds of Friends You Need
Robin Dunbar, the evolutionary psychologist behind the famous "Dunbar's number," spent decades proving that human beings can only maintain about 150…
May 18
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Anna Goldfarb
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Live with Anna Goldfarb + Nell Wulfhart
A recording from Anna Goldfarb's live video
May 15
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Anna Goldfarb
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Nell McShane Wulfhart
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Why no one knows how to end a friendship the right way
There are scripts for romantic breakups, for quitting jobs, for canceling gym subscriptions. Somehow this one got left out.
Mar 14
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Anna Goldfarb
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What Kind of Friend Are You, Actually?
a quiz
Mar 11
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Anna Goldfarb
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50 Rules of Modern Friendship Etiquette
On how to show up, communicate, make time, be curious, navigate difficult conversations, and be an all-around wonderful friend
Feb 26
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Anna Goldfarb
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The top 5 reasons why modern friendships suck
#4 Churn is high. Also: four things I love and two things I hate AND a new way for you to get help with your friendships (hint: It's a helpline run by…
Jan 15
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Anna Goldfarb
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The Mixed Messages We Receive About Friendship
Should you reach out or peace out?
Nov 1, 2025
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Anna Goldfarb
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